7 reasons why being single is cool
We live in an age where being single is being looked upon like it's a serious disease more like HIV, Ebola or Cancer but is it as bad as the society has made it look? For one, we can all agree that many people are single although while some are searching, some are not! While some are in a serious relationship, some are just passing time away.
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This goes to the women especially but it's no doubt that men also want their independence in life. At least, many of us love to live our life knowing we can stay alone and have a good time at one point or the other in life without depending on one man or woman as the case may be. As you know, being single gives room, a lot of room for that.
Many men as well as women are already choked in relationships that they put themselves in. You can't go out, you can't visit this place, many can't even take a call in privacy. Some men check more on their women more than they check their mailbox. Same goes for women that think their men is a purse that you carry around. This can drive humans nuts as it is our nature to seek out freedom and space wherever we may find it.
Self Improvement is a lifestyle that all of us must adopt. We just need to be better. We want to improve, we want to be a better version of who we are. It's not something we do for a man/woman, no. It's not something we want to do for another person but what we do for oneself.
It's actually easy to make friends when you're single than when you're not. Females tends to lose friends when in a serious relationship and they often don't make many especially if it's related to the opposite sex. Moving or having fun in groups also become reduced as a result of it. You tend to devote your time to a single partner.
You can explore the world alone. You can go to wherever you want and whenever you feel like going. You can visit any place you want without taking a permission or feeling you need an opinion or someone to go with.You can try new things like sports, lifestyle, religion, travelling and so on. Being single may just be the best thing for anyone who has a thing for exploration. You can see the world and find yourself in it.
Save yourself the heartbreak
We've all been there haven't we? The occasional heartbreak, the guilt, the hurt and the pains. The free packages that relationship offers to us all. If you're not ready or if you're just healing from one, you better stay single till you are willing to commit yourself wholeheartedly to any man or woman.
At least, when single the fear of a break up or heartbreak, insecurity, jealousy is out of the equation.
Why share the love with someone when you can have it to yourself? One of the greatest love of all is the type that you can give to yourself. Loving oneself is a thing of joy. What's better? You don't need a man or woman as the case may be to show yourself real love. And sometimes, it is better to stay single till you find a serious and committed partner
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Written by Cynthia Aniston for Wikeria
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Related Article : Why many are still single
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Posted by Unknown on Tuesday 14 June 2016
well, being single is cool. but you should try being in a serious relationship too... that's "cooler".
ReplyDeleteI can testify.
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